The Beauty of Private Vows:
A Moment Just for You
Your wedding day will be filled with love, laughter, and celebration, but amidst the whirlwind of emotions, it can be hard to find a quiet moment to truly soak it all in. That’s why private vows are such a wonderful addition to your wedding timeline.
I was recently reminded of this while photographing a beautiful wedding in Spring Branch, Texas, set against the stunning backdrop of Texas Hill Country. The couple chose to exchange private vows beneath the trees in a private patio. It was a raw, emotional moment—just the two of them, sharing words they’ll remember forever. Witnessing that intimacy reinforced why private vows are such a meaningful part of a wedding day. This specific wedding was the reason I advise couples to have a first touch with private vows.
AN INTIMATE CONNECTION
Sharing private vows allows you to step away from the crowd and focus solely on each other. Being in the moment, and taking it all in. Without the pressure of an audience, you can speak from the heart, share personal promises, and express your love in a way that feels natural and deeply meaningful. (An added bonus is that if you cry and your make up runs, you have time to touch it up! )
A QUIET PAUSE ON THE DAY
Weddings move fast, and before you know it, the day is over. Private vows create a beautiful pause in the midst of the celebration, allowing you both to be fully present in the moment. It’s a chance to slow down, breathe, and truly connect before stepping into your ceremony or reception.
KEEPS THE CEREMONY SHORT AND SWEET
If you love the idea of heartfelt vows but want to keep your ceremony concise, private vows offer the best of both worlds. You can share your deepest words with each other in private while keeping your public vows more traditional and to the point.
A MEMORY TO CHERISH
Private vows often become one of the most cherished memories of the wedding day. Whether you exchange them during a first look, at sunset, or after the ceremony, these moments are ones you’ll carry in your heart forever.
I’m Ruth Lattimore
Your wedding day is a story—one filled with love, joy, and unforgettable moments. As a wedding photographer serving San Antonio, Fredericksburg, and Austin and all over Texas, I specialize in capturing the real, raw, and beautiful emotions of your day. From the vibrant cityscapes of Austin to the charming wineries of Fredericksburg and the historic charm of San Antonio, I bring a timeless and artistic approach to documenting your love story.
With years of experience, I blend documentary-style storytelling with fine-art portraiture to create a wedding gallery that feels natural, romantic, and uniquely yours. Whether you’re exchanging vows under the Texas Hill Country sky, in a grand ballroom, or at an intimate backyard gathering, I’ll be there to capture every meaningful detail—the nervous excitement, the happy tears, and the joyful celebrations.
Your wedding photos should feel just as magical years from now as they do today. Let’s create something unforgettable together! Contact me to learn more about my wedding photography services and availability.
